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10 Signs that Your Aging Parents Need Help


Safety Tips for the Adult Children


With more and more families dispersed geographically, adult children who live far away from their elderly parents face ongoing worry about their health and safety. As aging parents, particularly those who live alone, face medical and mobility issues, questions relating to their physical, social and psychological well-being arise. How do you know if a parent’s needs have changed and more care is necessary?


Adult children should be aware of any changes in their parents’ attitudes or behaviour— changes which are often undetectable over the telephone. There are, however, clear warning signs that some type of intervention is needed.


  1.  Mail and bills are left to pile up. The simple act of opening and sorting mail becomes overwhelming. Managing a bank account can also become too much for a parent to handle.

  2.  The house is cluttered or unkempt. This is especially troubling if a parent has always been neat and orderly.

  3.  Food in the refrigerator is uneaten or spoiled. Shopping, cooking, and cleaning become too much trouble. A parent might eat just enough to get by, but suffer nutritionally. Losing weight can be another sign that a parent is not eating a nutritious diet.

  4.  Signs of scorching on the bottoms of pots and pans. A result of short-term memory loss, this is a dangerous sign that parents are forgetting about pots left on the stove, causing a fire hazard, and threatening both the individual’s and the surrounding neighbours’ safety.

  5.  The parent wears the same clothing over and over again and has other personal hygiene issues. Doing laundry has become physically challenging, particularly if the washing machine is in the basement. Or there may be a fear of falling in the tub or shower.

  6.  Missed doctor’s appointments. Sometimes this is simply a product of not having transportation and not knowing how to access ride options.

  7.  Repeated phone calls at odd hours. When a parent telephones friends or family at odd hours, it may be a sign of memory loss, or a cry for help— a sign of depression or isolation. Arranging for a daily check-in phone call, a regular volunteer visitor, or getting involved with a local senior centre, could make all the difference.

  8.  Forgetting to take medication. A sign of short-term memory loss or depression, this isn’t just a quality of life issue, but a real risk factor.

  9.  Inappropriate behaviour, clothing or speech. You may hear about this from a neighbour, someone who has noticed that your parent is not dressing appropriately for the weather, for instance. That’s a sign that he or she might be confused.

  10. Symptoms of depression. A frequent problem for many older people, who feel isolated and alone, like a prisoner in their own homes, depression causes marked changes in behaviour and routine. Feelings of hopelessness or despair, lack of interest in once pleasurable activities, crying, listlessness, and not wanting to get dressed can all be indications of a problem.

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